Before the New Year begins everyone talks about the many things that they are going to do different. In the end no one really follows them, so why even talk about it? This year I don’t really have a goal or any type of resolution. I haven’t really taken the time out to think of one.  I guess if I had to pick something I would like to have more self-confidence and be happy. I don’t have good confidence and I am constantly beating myself up. I think that life would be easier if I had a more positive outlook on certain situations. I always let the bad things in life define me, but if I learned how to be more positive things would be okay. The being happy part all goes along with the confidence. Since I am constantly beating myself up, I tend to be sad most of the times. So, I guess my ultimate goal for this year would be to have a better outlook on things, and learn to love myself. I know that this goal won’t be easy for me, but it is something that I am willing to work to. It will take lots of time, but everything takes time.